FEELING VULNERABLE ANYONE?

The best part about being a writer is knowing that someone likes what you've written. But, there's a certain amount of vulnerability writers feel when we try to get feedback. And let me tell you, it's never easy. We could ask a friend or family member to read our work, but chances are, they'll just tell us what they think we want to hear, since they're so supportive and all. And, soliciting the advice of a complete stranger is certainly out of the question, or is it? It's not as hard as you might think if you just follow a few simple suggestions. The secret is to never give them the opportunity to say, "No." Just remember, you have to sneak up on them, like a mountain lion stalking it's prey. I find this works best when they have their heads down trying to concentrate on their work. Next, try to make it as uncomfortable for them as you can, "Um...I mean um...would you like to read my manuscript?" I promise you - they'll have a hard time saying, "No."